“Isn’t it funny? You hear a phone ring and it could be anybody. But ringing phone has to be answered, doesn’t it? ” .. Have you ever thought of that ? have you ever been in a situation where you had to answer a question that wasn’t even directed to you just because you heard it ? Well let me tell you that it’s a curse , as well known: Silence is gold , and by experience: Silence is Diamond. How many times did i wished that i could have kept my mouth shut? A LOT. Naturally, when someone ask you a question they expect you to answer the answer they want , they corner you to give them what they want to hear, or at least agree with them. QUESTIONs are misunderstood these days. In the past, when someone asks a question they really wanted to know, and they mostly ask the people who know. Nowadays, eneryone is asking and everyone is answering without even concentrating in what they are talking about. - “What do you know about Fukushima?” .. “yeah, it’s a chinese recipie but i don’t like Sushi” - Really ??!!!!!! you’ve got to be kidding.
On the other hand, there’re some Utopists tend to answer questions that wasn’t even directed to them. derived by their craving to help others and providing the right answer if they know it. And as much noble as it sounds it’s not very welcomed from both the questioner and the questioned. - “Am not asking you.” , “Who gave you the permission to intervene?” , “Who are you?” , and sometimes it gets to a contempt look and total IGNORATION. Guys , guys … Calm down, they don’t answer that question out of intervention, it’s just a spontaneous reflection to hearing or seeing a question mark while knowing the answer :) they just like to provide knowledge, spread information. may be they do it the wrong way, may be you don’t accept it with tolerance , but please, please just try to understand their motive and respect it.
Finally i like to advice my fellow Utopists , If you ever hear a ringing phone - and you will - let it ring until somebody else answers and tells you it’s for you :D
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